台灣政壇知名行政院長孫運璿，生前曾給兒子寫過一封信，這封信最近才流傳出來，並很快的流傳於各大網站，很多父執輩看後感觸很深，其實這信適合所有人看！
下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會再見 ~ 孫運璿送給兒子的備忘錄
我兒：寫這備忘錄給你，基於三個原則：
● 人生福禍無常，誰也不知可以活多久，有些事情還是早一點說好。
● 我是你的父親，我不跟你說，沒有人會跟你說這些事。
● 這備忘錄記載的，都是我經過慘痛失敗得來的體驗，可以為你的成長省不少冤枉路。
以下，便是你在人生中要好好記住的事：
（一）對你不好的人，你不要太介意，
在你一生中，沒有人有義務要對你好，除了我和你媽媽。
至於那些對你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也請多防備一點，
因為，每個人做每件事，總有一個原因，
他對你好，未必真的是因為喜歡你，請你務必搞清楚，
而不必太快將對方看作真朋友。
（二）沒有人是不可代替，沒有任何東西是必須擁有的。
看透了這一點，將來你身邊的人不再要你，
或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時，也應該明白，這並不是什麼大不了的事。
（三）生命是短暫的，
今日你還在浪費著生命，明日會發覺生命已遠離你了。
因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，
與其盼望長壽，倒不如早點享受。
（四）世界上並沒有最愛這回事，
愛情只是一種霎時的感覺，而這感覺絕對會隨時日、心境而改變。
如果你所謂的最愛離開你，請耐心地等候一下，
讓時日慢慢沖洗，讓心靈慢慢沉澱，你的苦就會慢慢淡化。
不要過分憧憬愛情的美，不要過分誇大失戀的悲。
（五）雖然很多有成就的人士都沒有受過很多教育，
但並不等於不用功讀書，就一定可以成功。
你學到的知識，就是你擁有的武器，可以白手興家，但不可手無寸鐵，謹記！
（六）我不會要求你供養我下半輩子，同樣地，我也不會供養你的下半輩子，
當你長大可以獨立時，我的責任已經完結。
以後，你要坐巴士還是賓士，吃魚翅還是粉絲，都要自己負責。
（七）你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求別人守信，
你可以要求自己對人好，但不能期待人家對你好。
你怎樣對人，並不代表人家就會怎樣對你，
如果看不透這一點，你只會徒增不必要的煩惱。
（八）買了十多二十年的六合彩的人，還是一窮二白，連三獎也沒有中過，
這是常事，這就證明人要發達，還是要努力工作才可以，世界上沒有免費午餐。
（九）親人只有一次的緣分，
無論這輩子我和你會相處多久，都請好好珍惜共聚的時光，
下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會再見。
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感谢分享!
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最后一条最让人伤感。
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以前看过。再看还是很好。
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同感。
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惜缘
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草草的翻下來給孩子看看：
My dear son, I wrote this memo for you because of the following reasons:
- No one knows what might happen tomorrow, nor how long one can live. It's better to learn certain things earlier rather than later.
- I am your father. If I don't tell you these, no one will tell you.
- These memo were based on my life experience. As I learnt it the hard way, I hope these memo saves you a lot of heartbreaks.
The followings are things you need to remember as you go through life:
1) Those who mistreated you, don't hold grudges against them
No one in your life has to treat you well, except me and your mum. For those who are nice to you, apart from being grateful, please also be mindful. People do things for reasons. Someone is nice to you does not mean that they really like you. Do be careful before you take them in as your friend.
2) No one is irreplaceable. There is no such thing called "must have".
Once you understand these, if those close to you leave you, or you lost what is most precious to you, these are really no big deal.
3) Life is short.
While today you are wasting your life away, tomorrow you will find that life has already slipped from you.
So the earlier you learn to treasure life, the more time you have to enjoy it. Instead of wishing for longevity, it's better to learn to enjoy what life can offer you early.
4) There is no such thing called "love of your life".
Love is only a fleeting feeling, which changes with time, changes with your mood. If one day, your so called love of your life left you, please wait patiently, as time heals all wounds. Don't over emphasize the beauty of romance, nor the pain from losing a loved one.
5) There are many successful people who are not well educated. However, it does not mean that you can be successful if you don't study hard. Whatever you learnt becomes your weapon. Remember: you can build an empire even if you are penniless, but you still need the tools.
6) I don't expect you to look after me when I grow old. At the same time, don't expect me to look after you once you grow up. When you can stand on your own two feet, I have completed my duty as your father. It is up to you whether you want to ride a bus or a Benz, have noodle or shark fin, it's your responsibility.
7) You can require yourself to keep your promise, but you can't expect the same from the others.
You can require yourself to treat others well, but you can't expect the same from the others.
Life is not meant to be reciprocal: your life is going to be miserable if you don't understand this.
8) Many have been buying lottery for decdes, still stayed poor, and had never even won the 3rd price.
This is normal, and it just proves that only working hard will make you wealthy. There is no such thing called free lunch.
9) Blood ties us together only once. I don't know how much time we have together, but please treasure it. Whether we love each other, we won't meet again next life.
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感谢分享!
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再读一次
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感谢分享!
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这篇文章，以前看过，也觉得非常好。
当把个别忠告转给孩子时，他们表示理解，有道理，
但是有时候会说，就算是这么 回事，却宁愿自己去经历，去吃亏，去醒悟
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儿子也是要自己去经历，去悟的人
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儿子也是要自己去经历，去悟的人
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谢谢大家加分鼓励, 我升布鞋族了. 意外惊喜.
孫運璿有三个孩子, 可能当初至少有一个在青春期让父母操碎了心的孩子, 他才能写出这样的箴言赐子. 好的是他的三个孩子都成材自立了.
上中学的孩子, 开始独立思考和反抗父母. 他们的价值观和人生观也在逐渐的形成. 我将英文版给我淘气的13岁女儿看了, 她对我温柔了两天. 可能是最后一句话触动了她的心门一下. 孩子们的心智成长, 就得从惜缘惜时自发图强, 爱身边的家庭和亲友开始.
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谢谢分享英文版.
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作为一个父亲，我看完流泪了。
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在本版块能找到父母知音共鸣, 难得. 若大家有什么让13,14岁的孩子领悟感动, 重新听父母话的高招, 请分享.
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感动
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mark
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另一说是香港电台知名主持人梁继璋给儿子写的一封信,不知哪个对呢?
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Well done!
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谢谢你的反馈．
我刚去GOOGLE收索， 有看到ＹＯＵＴＵＤＥ上梁继璋语重心长留给他儿子的录音和录像．最早的发表于２０１０年２月２７日，原文作者可能真是梁继璋. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1GwJwEo9og
其他网上说孫運璿是作者也不少. 大多发表在２０１２年后 .
http://www.google.com.au/#q=%E5% ... 9%E5%BF%98%E9%8C%84
父亲思想睿智，舔犊情深，难得的好文！
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