背景信息是:
坐标墨尔本:一个5岁班级的kindergarten, government funded,30多个孩子,男孩居多,都是behaviour challenging的孩子,其中有几个diagnosed 的additional needs。
孩子一起玩,rough play难免的,情况反复发生,上升到conflict,fight的level时候,有的男孩很aggresive会直接kick不敢声张的孩子,那么问题来了,这样的情况一再发生,我们已经给aggressive的孩子家校都制定了behaviour management action plan,各种对策和strategy,正面教导旁敲侧击,包括take on extra responsibility的让小皮蛋regulate自己的情绪和行为好给其他同学做榜样。
我们对一些不敢声张的孩子, 也有策略就是自己受欺负了,语言第一,让对方停, 还是不停,就赶紧告诉老师,好保护自己。
结果有的小皮蛋聪明着呢,趁老师不注意赶紧接二连三的kick,实在是过分的无法用言语形容,有时候victim会retaliate就push过去以求自保。请问其他的老师,小学班主任也是,这种班级管理,你会如何处理,是可以让孩子push回去好自保,还是直接鼓励孩子用语言,站着不还手叫住手,不然告诉老师。这个是一个dilemma ,主要家长跟我们都担心有的孩子经常趁老师不注意的时候,受到了伤害,鼓励他们stick up for themselves有时候意味着文明解决non-violence的话就是自己被打的感觉。
想听听这里行内人的意见,诚心求教。(家校都在积极想对策,但这个对策不是一夜之间就出来的,都是在根据实际情况,做调整,做修改,添加等等。)所以,来自里咨询下大家的意见。谢谢。
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You would not have much luck here. Try EssentialKids forum.
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谢谢你
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The bullies need to face heavier consequences - official warning letter, parent interview, in-school suspension etc.
Nominating student leaders may be a good idea to set role models and support students who are being bullied.
As an educator, you should never encourage children to fight back physically to stick up for themselves; this will only agitate their conflicts.
However, it's very hard to create a school environment with absolutely no bullying. Being a teacher/educator is not an easy task, but we are making a difference in many people's lives.
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这个不好解决,我儿子学了2天武术还是被打,告诉我不想被老师警告。
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This really meant something to me. Very inspirational thoughts. Thank you.
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