教育版逛多了，焦虑症自然而生。这篇文章送给自己也送给版里同一迷茫的家长们。本来想翻译成中文，不过想想个中道理还是由大家自己去体味吧。
My choice
You must learn that you cannot be loved by all people. You can be the finest apple in the world--ripe,juicy,sweet and succulent--and offer yourself to all. But you must remember that there will be people who do not like apples.
You must understand that if you are the world's finest apple and someone you love does not like apples, you have the choice of becoming a banana.
But you must be warned that if you choose to become a banana,you will be a second rare banana.But you can always be the finest apple.
You must realize if you choose to be a second rare banana,there will be people who do not like bananas.
Furthermore, you can spend your life trying to become the best banana, which is impossible if you are an apple. Or you can seek to be a finest apple.
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我觉得我们孩子这一代，已经不那么在乎别人的眼光了！是什么就是什么，别人喜欢什么样的人? who cares！
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孩子小的时候还可以这么说，等到了青春期如果还不在乎别人的眼光，那才是太......
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我觉得这些道理孩子还是能懂的。。比如我家孩子会说，not everybody is perfect，
有时候她也会说有些东西自己擅长，有些东西自己不擅长。。
学校里也会教这些的。。
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恩，这点我也赞同，要是遇到喜欢的人，也许就不一样了。
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我说的不是喜欢的人的眼光，而是peer pressure，这是青春期孩子焦虑的主要来源。
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