1- 'Please' and 'thank you' are important. Start teaching them as soon as children learn to talk
“请” 和 “谢谢你” 非常的重要，请在孩子开始学习讲话时就教授
2- Insist children look people in the eye when they are greeted and say: 'Hello, how are you?'
坚持让孩子在和别人打招呼的时候注视对方的眼睛，“你好，你今天好吗？”
3- Table manners are essential. Teach youngsters early on to chew with mouths closed and not talk while eating
饭桌上的行为也很重要，应在早期就教育孩子咀嚼食物的时候闭上嘴，同时不应该边吃饭边讲话
4- Tell kids to address adult strangers as Mr, Mrs, or Ms until invited to use first names
告诉孩子应该用先生、夫人、女士等尊称来称呼刚刚认识的陌生成年人，直到被邀请使用名字来直接称呼
5- Insist children give up train or bus seats to the elderly or frail
坚持让孩子在火车或者公车上给老、弱、病、残、孕让座位
6- Teach them to hold a door open for others
教育孩子们进门后给身后的人留门
7- Never swear in front of your children
永远不要在孩子面前赌咒
8- Remember, leading by example is the best way to teach
请记住，作为榜样的您，言传身教才是最佳的教育
Source: Psychologist Jo Lamble
[ 本帖最后由 旋木 于 2010-10-21 13:49 编辑 ]
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完完全全就是我的教法嘛，一字不差
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你好强大哎！
4 和 7 我是看到才知道这在英语国家里是有讲究的
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看到华人喊叔叔，阿姨，西人是要喊mr.& mrs加姓的，这比直呼其名有礼貌多了
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小孩的确不宜直呼成人名字，不知道有叫鬼子 uncle 的吗？哈哈
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不可以喊uncle的，人家肯定很不解很困惑
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那中文里叔叔、阿姨，对应的英文用啥好呢？
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mr. & mrs. 姓氏
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先生，女士呀！
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重要的是，教孩子在家里也这样做。如果要求爸爸妈妈替他们做什么，或爸爸妈妈替他们做了什么，哪怕只是一件小事，譬如递一个水果给他们，也一定要说＂请＂，＂谢谢＂或＂对不起＂等。优秀是一种习惯，礼貌也是。
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这些只是绅士淑女入门的要求吧。后面肯定还有中级班，高级班。比如步态体态的要求，谈话的分寸，恰到好处的幽默感等等等等。这些东西，我们小时候没人教，孩子学校也不教。
有谁能来拓展一下吗？
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一切行为的源头都是德修！ 德修到家了，行为不需做过多约束的。
还是先修德吧！
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比如过斑马线路点头致谢之类的?
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说实话，有些方面我都做不到。但是注视别人的眼睛说话还是很重要的。
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你是我学习的榜样。
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不敢不敢，大家都在学习ING
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7- Never swear in front of your children
Swear = F words
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嗯，这些细节我都做不到。或者说，根本没想过需要这么做。
还有吗？
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那天看到有个3岁左右的小孩帮后面的人留着门呢，好感动哦。
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这个太抽象了，对大人来说也是深奥的学问，不要说对孩子了。lz列的那些比较容易做。
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小D ，直接跳级到该看 HOW TO BE A GENTKEMAN了
比如
1 Good hygiene is a must. Don't just use a bar of soap, but do scrub yourself. Make sure ears have no wax in them and that privates and facial hair are clean and at least trimmed nicely. When applying deodorant or cologne, don't use a lot. Also, make sure you don't use too much hair gel (it's sticky).
2.A true gentleman is polite to everyone, in action and words. Always be aware of how you can help people. Wait an extra few seconds to hold the door for the person behind you. Offer to help an old or pregnant person get their grocery bags to the car. You don't have to be paranoid or risk killing yourself (i.e if you've got a precarious grip on something heavy, don't open the door for someone) but respect is paramount. Even if someone is being stupid, be polite and respectful.
3. Learn to either avoid politics and religion until you know someone better, and learn how to be neutral if someone else brings it up. A simple shrug will do wonders. A gentleman doesn't make other people uncomfortable.
4. Don’t BackstabA gentleman respects himself, but he also respects those around him. Don’t insult your friends when they’re not around. This is a classless act which gentlemen avoid. If you think so little of them, then why do you bother calling them your friends?
Also avoid laughing at someone to their face, especially when they find themselves in an embarrassing situation. You wouldn’t like to be treated is this manner, so take that into consideration.
5. Avoid CursingCursing makes you appear crude. A gentleman should avoid cursing at all times. Work to elevate your vocabulary, not lower it.
6. Remove Your Hat When going indoors, always remove you hat. You should also take off your hat anytime you’re at the dinner table.
等等
[ 本帖最后由 粉猪妈妈 于 2010-10-21 14:19 编辑 ]
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我觉得教孩子尊重人很重要。
尊重所有人。。
比如，学校门口斑马线都有帮孩子过马路的人。。每次我提醒孩子和人家说good morning Mr Jerry/ Ms Mary and thank you
做bus下车(如果不繁忙)，也好和司机说谢谢。 孩子小可以说Thank you Mr Busdriver
[ 本帖最后由 粉猪妈妈 于 2010-10-21 14:32 编辑 ]
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这句话翻译错了，swear在这里是“骂人”“说脏字”的意思。这句的意思应该是，永远不要在孩子面前说脏话。
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滚算不算脏话？
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算的。一般家里没必要使用。
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赞同。
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