每个人都有自己的优缺点。如果一味只盯着别人的缺点，那么既使有更多优点你也不会看到。如果你只想着别人的好，那么就是有缺点，也会忘却。
Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. If you only focus on the shortcomings of others, you won't see even more advantages. If you only think about the good of others, even if you have shortcomings, you will forget them.
可是，现实生活中，我们往往只会看到别人不好的一面，因为有了矛盾，因为一次拒绝，就忘记了别人之前的好，把关系闹僵，把感情变淡。
However, in real life, we often only see the bad side of others. Because of contradictions and rejection, we forget the previous good of others, make the relationship stiff and weaken our feelings.
记住别人的好，用一颗感恩之心去生活，才能看淡琐事，放下烦恼。如果一直耿耿于怀，带着一颗怨恨之心生活，对别人是一种伤害，对自己是一种折磨。
Remember the good of others and live with a grateful heart, so as to look down on trivial things and put down troubles. If you live with resentment all the time, it will hurt others and torture yourself.
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